How we sometimes lie to ourselves because we are too afraid to discover…
Not knowing is a bliss our haven, the imaginary cocoon that encapsulates us from things we are too afraid to acknowledge, things that we try to push deep down which keeps on bottling up till it’s too late and truth just explodes like a shattering glass in all possible directions, piercing our mind, body, soul in the worst plausible way.
The sixth sense, the signs, the signals are all there but we force ourselves to believe that if we don’t speak about it probably it would never happen either… but that’s not how the world works, isn’t it.
- Why we always preach that communication is the key in every relationship yet we are too afraid to confront about the things that we are not ready to let go of yet. Why we let our fear of losing someone hijack our rational thinking. Why are we so determined to see our future with someone that we try to stick along with them in the present for all the wrong reasons. Why do we weaken ourselves to preserve a strong image of them?
Nobody wants to talk about the elephant in the room because it makes them uncomfortable, takes them out of their comfort zone but what are we gaining ultimately because if there is a tide brewing it cannot be ignored forever you need to acknowledge its presence and should be willing to work on it no matter the results.
Means cannot justify the ends and the outcome shouldn’t hinder you from making the correct choices.
It’s always the not knowing that nobble your peace, don’t let it define you. Go out there express yourself, confront them, always ask the things bothering you since their response is not your problem, your clarity of mind is. Life is not a 90 mins Movie or 4 season 10 episodes Series whose outcome you can contemplate later.
Do not chop yourself up to fit into someone else’s definition of perfection.
There is only one life and one you, so why stop ourselves from doing the things we are most afraid of.
